Warning- nothing on this list is clothes. I generally avoid clothes for baby gifts unless I 100% know a couple's style. Especially when buying gender neutral gifts, clothes are risky. Everything on this list is stuff that I either own or can 100% recommend so any mom would find these gifts useful!
Not every baby will use a pacifier, but I love to give them as gifts because if baby does want them mom will want some on hand RIGHT AWAY rather than having to run to the store for some! You can't go wrong with any of the Orthodontic Rubber soothers from Ecopiggy or a Wubbanub. This Ecopiggy brand is all natural and just beautifully made. I also got this neutral colored leather pacifier clip for a gender neutral gift because it went so beautifully with the Ecopiggy pacifier.
Here are some other things that the Baby Cubby carries that would make great gender neutral baby shower gift. I can personally vouch for every brand on this list.
This Eco Teether from Ecopiggy (pictured below) is my favorite teether and would make any mom happy.